How to go about

telling Jeff I 'really' think we should just adopt????


he is set against it; he doesn't see the issues with having another one. OBVIOUSLY he doesn't understand my medical history.

SO


What are the first steps to adoption??

Do you want an open adoption or closed?

I would contact Aunt Debi for her opinion on where to start, didnt she use to be in that line of work.

http://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/f_start.cfm
as far as telling him I really don't think there is a way to ease him into the idea. I think u need to be frank and tell him it hurts u as much as it does him, but u think this was Gods plan. prayers to u both.