welcome to my shit list my friend

for those of you getting along with your husbands.. kudos!! 8 years 2nd fight .. totally ruined my evening. i threw the bill basket at him and he's stressed now. it's making me stressed.. hate this!!!

Ahhh bill fights, been there done that, IT SUCKS!!!!

Hugs. Just remember butting heads will not make them go away.

Me!! Me!! Me!

I am soo pissed at DH lately.. I swear if he was any lazier he'd stop breathing..

only 2 fights in eight years?

I fight with my DH at least weekly sometimes daily.

yeah were not fighters.. we hold everything in and let stuff bother us till we explode. He just doesn't talk about the finances with me, so i have no idea whats coming in or going out.. I have my own checking acct and he has his. Since I'm not working I've been asking for money if we need something at the stores, and my coupons and such, but do mystery shop and stuff to help pay the bills. I never really gave tuition much thought, but evidently it's a stresser. We have medical bills here and there but nothing insane, and then our 10k credit card that got jacked up when chris was sick and i was helping nicole.. I was also working. so I came to the conclusion that instead of vacationing at all this year we will be using that money that we had set aside to pay stuff off. kind of depressing but we just had a pretty expensive vacation in october, and this will leave us in a better place if I don't kill him.

Hope it goes away soon.

Jeff and I fight all the time; only major fights are about money, or lack there of.

BUT here lately I make more than him; spend less than him; and he is realizing he's got it pretty good with me.

he wants me to get a job.. which is fine and dandy but when would he like me to work? He works 3 jobs,goes to school at night , and I have 2 kids on 2 different baseball teams... one plays mon and weds the other plays tues and thurs.. I can work fridays as of right now.. weekends are family time at camp and he doesn't want me to work then.. well he can't have it both ways. I looked at getting a job during the day but it would literally pay the sitter.. I would go home with 25 bucks a week. to me 25 bucks would fill the gas tank half way and all that for what? I don't get the joke.

Right now you have a job it's called MOM